Valentine's Day: The Ex Factor

Note to ex-girlfriends/boyfriends across the world:

Valentine's day is not the time to check up on your exes. They are still your exes, they don't want you back, especially on Valentine's Day. Deep down inside, you know that you want them to be thinking about you on that day, whether positive or negative, because they are feeding energy into you. That's a sign people. You're looking for the attention that you don't have. Grow up. Pamper yourself.

I admit I was previously guilty of checking up on the past in the future (not necessarily an ex, but I digress) but I grew up when I realized why. The time, effort, and energy that it takes to remind someone that you exist just isn't worth it in the long run. You could take that same time, energy, and effort and focus it on other tasks - like meditating, cleaning, cooking, exercising. Heck females for 15 bucks you can have your own "me time" and for guys, it may be even cheaper, but that's a different issue.

Either way, for the people that were down, my advice is to wait. Don't backtrack, keep moving forward, it's okay. There is so much more in store than a measly box of chocolates or flowers that are going to die next week and balloons that will deflate and take up space.

And for the hoes - lock yourselves in your room, without internet access. Don't infect the populace with that bull you be on trying to make sure your ex sees that you are happy. If you just BE happy you don't have to worry about whether or not other people view you as happy. It's the inner self that is reflected on the outside. So, get your minds right.

'Tis All.